names & pronouns guides

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as a rule of thumb, i prefer language that is explicitly outside the binary (especially non-anthrogender), and even better if it refers to non-human entities :)

names

  • "crow&" (any langage; preferred forms below)

pronouns

in order of preference :)

english

  • fey/feyr
    • subj: fey | obj: feyr | pos: feyr | posprn: feyrs | ref: feyrself
    • pronounced feɪ/feɪr/feɪr/feɪrs/feɪrself
    • "fey is usually called crow&! if you asked feyr, though, fey'd say feyr name can be 'crow&' in any language! this site is feyrs, and fey coded it feyrself!"
  • it/its
    • subj: it | obj: it | pos: its | posprn: its | ref: itself
    • pronounced ɪt/ɪt/ɪts/ɪts/ɪtself
    • "it is usually called crow&! if you asked it, though, it'd say its name can be 'crow&' in any language! this site is its, and it coded it itself!"
  • 🦷/🦷s
    • subj: 🦷 | obj: 🦷 | pos: 🦷s | posprn: 🦷s | ref: 🦷self
    • not used when speaking/text only
    • "🦷 is usually called crow&! if you asked 🦷, though, 🦷'd say 🦷s name can be 'crow&' in any language! this site is 🦷's, and 🦷 coded it 🦷self!"
  • anything except he/him and they/them or associated pronouns in moderation
    • (ie do not use hi/hym, hey/hem, heesh/himmer)
    • (for example) "she is usually called crow&! if you asked et, though, fey'd say zir name can be 'crow&' in any language! this site is mew's, and she coded it pawself!"
    • please never use he/they in any context, except if you're for some reason mentioning me on wikipedia--in which case, use my name and they/them only. most nonstandard pronouns are fine.

español

please address me& as "tú" or "vos," you don't need permission to use them! only use "usted" when talking about me/my work in a more professional context (AKA when you really have to).

i'm uruguayan and therefore speak in the rioplatense dialect, but i've provided the pronunciations in LatAm spanish (you're welcome).

  • elle/le
    • subj: elle | obj: le
    • pronounced eʝe/le
    • "¿ese es elle? ¿por qué se le comiendo elle computadora?"
  • never use él/lo/-o or ellx/lx/-x. ell@/l@/-@ or ella/la/-a is acceptable but not preferred.

other languages

  • please use the standard gender neutral, non-gendered, or mixed-gender pronoun. if none exist, use the standard genderless object pronoun. if that also doesn't exist, any non-binary neopronoun works.

honorifics & titles

generally, assume my title is the gender neutral honorific for a young person in a language. listed in order of preference!

english

  • Misc.
    • pronounced /mɪsk/
    • used before a name, ie "misc. crow&"
  • Msr. / Missir
    • pronounced /mɪ́ssər/
    • used before a name, ie "msr. crow&"
  • Mx.
    • pronounced /ˈmɪks/
    • used before a name, ie "mx. crow&"

español

  • Srte. / señorite
    • pronounced /seɲoˈɾite/
    • used before a name, ie "srte. crow&"
  • Sre. / señore
    • pronounced /seɲoˈɾe/
    • used before a name, ie "sre. crow&"