names & pronouns guides

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as a rule of thumb, i prefer language that is explicitly outside the binary (especially non-anthrogender), and even better if it refers to non-human entities :)

names

• "crow&" (any langage; preferred forms below)
  • english: crow& [/kroʊ/]
  • español: cuervo& [/kweɾβo/]
  • ελληνικά: κοράκιϗ [/koɾaki/]
  • toki pona: ijo [_waso+pimeja] [/idʒɔ wɑsɔ pimedʒɑ/]

pronouns

in order of preference :)

english

• fey/feyr
  • subj: fey | obj: feyr | pos: feyr | posprn: feyrs | ref: feyrself
  • pronounced feɪ/feɪr/feɪr/feɪrs/feɪrself
  • "fey is usually called crow! if you asked feyr, though, fey'd say feyr name can be crow in any language! this site is feyrs, and fey coded it feyrself!"
• it/its
  • subj: it | obj: it | pos: its | posprn: its | ref: itself
  • pronounced ɪt/ɪt/ɪts/ɪts/ɪtself
  • "it is usually called crow! if you asked it, though, it'd say its name can be crow in any language! this site is its, and it coded it itself!"
• 🦷/🦷s
  • subj: 🦷 | obj: 🦷 | pos: 🦷s | posprn: 🦷s | ref: 🦷self
  • not used when speaking/text only
  • "🦷 is usually called crow! if you asked 🦷, though, 🦷'd say 🦷s name can be crow in any language! this site is 🦷s, and 🦷 coded it 🦷self!"
• never use he/she/they in any context. most nonstandard pronouns are fine.

español

please address me& as "tú" or "vos," you don't need permission to use them! only use "usted" when talking about me/my work in a more professional context.

i'm uruguayan and therefore speak in the rioplatense dialect, but i've provided the pronunciations in LatAm spanish (you're welcome).

• elle/le
  • subj: elle | obj: le
  • pronounced eʝe/le
  • "¿ese es elle? ¿por qué se le comiendo elle computadora?"
• never use ella/la/-a or ellx/lx/-x. using el/lo/-o in a gender neutral context is acceptable but not preferred

other languages

• please use the standard gender neutral, non-gendered, or mixed-gender pronoun. if none exist, use the standard genderless object pronoun. if that also doesn't exist, any non-binary neopronoun works.

honorifics & titles

generally, assume my title is the gender neutral honorific for a young person in a language. listed in order of preference!

english

• Misc.
  • pronounced /mɪsk/
  • used before a name, ie "misc. crow"
• Msr. / MiSir
  • pronounced /mɪ́ssər/
  • used before a name, ie "msr. crow"
• Mx.
  • pronounced /ˈmɪks/
  • used before a name, ie "mx. crow"

español

• Srte. / señorite
  • pronounced /seɲoˈɾite/
  • used before a name, ie "srte. crow"
• Sre. / señore
  • pronounced /seɲoˈɾe/
  • used before a name, ie "sre. crow"

lanték/charrúa

i seriously doubt i'll run into anyone who speaks a charrúan language fluently, so these terms are for use in any language.

• inchala (lanték for 'sibling')
  • call me this as a relation or title: charrúa, chaná, guaraní, and/or arachan.
  • call me this as a title (ie "inchala crow") & ask otherwise: native turtle islander, amerIndian, or otherwise indigenous to abya yala.
  • ask to call me this: indigenous and/or Black.
  • i will actually kill you if you call me this: white or a latine who isn't also in one of the above groups.