terms & language boundaries

key:
💖 = absolute favorite (anyone can call me this)
💗 = anyone can call me this
💞 = anyone who shares this identity can call me this
👥 = okay when referring to me as part of a group ("hi guys") but not individually ("my guy")
☑️ = okay, but not preferred
⚠️ = there are specific conditions for who can call me this
🚫 = no

queer terms

  • 💗 queer
  • 💖 dyke
  • 💗 fagdyke
  • 💞 fag/faggot
  • ⚠️ gay
    *jokingly from queer people specifically--not non-queer gays
  • 🚫 LGBT/LGBTQ+/etc.
  • 🚫 MOGAI/IMOGA/etc.
  • ⚠️ tranny
    *other transsexuals and close trans*/cisn't friends
  • 💞 trannyboy
  • 💗 trans*
  • 💖 transsexual
  • 👥☑️ transgender
  • 💗 transvestite
  • ⚠️ crossdresser
    *other transvestites--as in, no non-TV crossdressers

ethnic/racial terms

  • 💖 Mixed Latine Indian
  • 💗 Latine
  • ☑️ hispanic
  • 💞 spic

disability & neurodiversity terms

  • 💖 disabled, autistic, etc.
    *if it's the word for what i am, just say it
  • 💞 crip/cripple
  • ⚠️ crazy
    *schizospecs, psychotics, cluster As, and cluster Bs
  • 💞 schizo
    *as in schizospec. not non-schizo psychotics and mentally ill folks
  • 🚫 insane
  • 💖 autistic
  • 💞 autist
  • ⚠️ lame
    *my partners, headmates, & very close friends
  • 💞 gimp
  • 🚫 handicapped